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The abortion debate never goes away

I enjoy The Titleless Blog, written by an American expat who now lives in Chile. She was recently inspired by a recent dinner conversation to write a post about abortion entitled “In Defence of Women’s Choices” that I found interesting.

I’m not going to bore you with a summary because frankly you should read it yourself. Whenever I’m informed about something that is happening in the United States, especially in an election year, I can’t help but shake my head. It’s absurd to me that a country that proudly claims that all its citizens are equal, actively works to restrict civil rights to women and gays. Each Republican debate is like listening to the greatest minds of the 19th Century. The greatest hypocrisy of the Republican party is that they advocate less government for everything but your personal life. Now before anyone starts accusing me of being anti-American let me say that Canada doesn’t have a rosey human rights record either (the internment of Japanese-Canadians during WWII comes to mind), but I believe it’s the fairest in the Americas.

I know I’ve written about this before but I feel compelled to write about it again. The abortion argument always revolves around morality: right and wrong, life vs. death, the right’s of the fetus, and rarely pays attention to women, who — in case you didn’t know — give birth.

This is not a post about women’s rights per se but about access. The real issue when it comes to abortions is that they will never be eradicated, not as long as we live in a global society, where a vast majority of people are struggling to feed their families. A rich person telling a poor person what’s right or wrong, is simplifying the argument. No government, no matter how strict their laws, how brutal their penalties, will stop abortions from happening. So the question before you is, “Why not make them safe?”

I believe the answer to that question is that we hate women and want to control what they can and cannot do to their own bodies. Gloria Steinam once said, “If men could get pregnant, abortion would be a sacrament.” But even that is a simplification of a much more complex issue that is ultimately a personal choice based on individual life experiences. Religion, no matter how much they try to convince us otherwise, is irrelevant in the conversation. Maybe we’ll take members of the Vatican more seriously when they’re willing to set the ultimate example, and live as Jesus preached and sell all their assets to feed the hungry. While they’re at it, perhaps they could also fix their most grievous human error and proclaim that condoms in Africa aren’t so bad.

Anti-abortionists can wave their fingers and judge all they want: It will never stop abortions. As long as we live in a capitalist, unequal society where 1 per cent of the population controls all the wealth, we’re going to be keep arguing about this topic. What we really need, as corny as it sounds, is empathy for other people.

Like how I tied all these issues together? The reality is that they’re all connected on a variety of issues. See how smart I am?

Anyway, that’s my point. And I do have one!

The Perfect Family trailer

It’s a delightful surprise to see Kathleen Turner leading this new comedy about a Catholic woman whose family is less than traditional and her struggle to cope with the personal conflict their unconventional lives illicit in her.

I’m addicted to Pinterest

Pinterest

I tried to avoid it for as long as I could but yesterday I caved and joined Pinterest. I had to. There was a gun to my head, I promise. I am not lying or exaggerating. Alisha and Raquel threatened my life.

Of course, like all new things on the Internet, I’m addicted and have been obsessing over items to “pin” to my account. I have found a lot of baby photographs, which are annoying, but I’m guessing Pinterest is marketed primarily to the 27 + female demographic.

A few things about my blog. At the bottom of each post you will see social networking tags. I added them recently and if you want to share something I wrote on Twitter or facebook you now can. I have also added three new pages on the top navigation, one is my CV for those who are interested, the other is a photography page that links readers to my flickr account and the last is my published articles. I am slowly populating all three pages and making slight adjustments as I go along.

As for an update on me, for the most part things have been going well. I started my new full-time writing job last week and I like it. I’m allowed to work from home most days because of limited office space and I’m learning a lot about infertility, which is what I’ve been hired to write about funnily enough. Who knew it was such a diverse and fascinating topic?

The sad news is that I had to quit my teaching job, and said goodbye to my students, but it was going to happen eventually. Although teaching English was a nice change of pace from the office environment it’s impossible to make a living off it in Buenos Aires. At 32-years-old I have never been so poor in my life; it reminded me of university days when Christine and I counted our pennies to buy a pack of cigarettes. Not food mind you, cigarettes. Classy.

I think today I will work from Belgrano. The office is noisy and I’m constantly being interrupted which makes it impossible to get anything accomplished. Takes me back…

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